14 Things Cats Appreciate That Owners Sometimes Skip

Aug 23, 2025byMichael Tremblay

Cats may seem independent and aloof, but these furry companions have specific needs that sometimes fly under our radar. Understanding what makes your feline friend truly content goes beyond the basics of food and shelter. When we pay attention to these often-overlooked preferences, we create a happier, healthier environment for our whiskered family members.

This list is based on our research of online sources and cat owners’ experiences. Be aware that every cat is unique and might have different needs.

1. Elevated Resting Spots

Elevated Resting Spots
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Cats naturally seek high perches to survey their territory and feel secure. A bookshelf cleared for feline use or a window perch can transform your cat’s daily experience.

Many owners focus on floor-level beds while overlooking their cat’s instinctual desire to climb and observe from above. This simple addition provides both mental stimulation and security.

2. Consistent Feeding Schedule

Consistent Feeding Schedule
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Felines thrive on predictability. Random mealtimes create anxiety for cats who rely on routine to feel secure in their environment.

Setting regular feeding times helps regulate their digestive system and prevents stress-related behaviors. Your cat will appreciate knowing exactly when the next meal arrives, even if they act nonchalant about it.

3. Slow Blinking Communication

Slow Blinking Communication
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Those languid, slow blinks aren’t just your cat being sleepy. Cat behaviorists call this the “cat kiss” – a sign of trust and affection in feline language.

Returning these slow blinks creates a special bond between you and your pet. This simple gesture acknowledges their communication style and builds trust in ways many owners never realize.

4. Water Sources Away From Food

Water Sources Away From Food
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Instinctively, cats prefer drinking water that’s separated from their food. In the wild, water near prey might be contaminated, so this preference is deeply ingrained.

Multiple water stations throughout your home can significantly increase your cat’s water intake. Fresh, clean water in ceramic or glass bowls particularly appeals to finicky feline drinkers.

5. Scratching Post Variety

Scratching Post Variety
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Scratching isn’t just about nail maintenance – it’s a territorial marking behavior that releases feel-good pheromones for your cat. Different cats prefer different scratching surfaces.

Offering both vertical and horizontal scratching options with various textures satisfies this natural need. Some cats prefer sisal rope while others enjoy cardboard or carpet surfaces.

6. Quiet Retreat Spaces

Quiet Retreat Spaces
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Cats need sanctuary zones where they can escape overwhelming situations. A quiet closet shelf or a covered bed provides crucial decompression space.

Even the most social cats appreciate having somewhere to retreat when visitors arrive or when household activity becomes too much. These hideaways help prevent stress-related behaviors and allow cats to regulate their social interaction.

7. Playtime That Mimics Hunting

Playtime That Mimics Hunting
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Wand toys that flutter like birds or scurry like mice engage your cat’s predatory instincts in a satisfying way. Many owners unknowingly frustrate cats with laser pointers that never provide the satisfaction of a “catch.”

Structured play sessions that end with a physical toy capture helps fulfill their hunting sequence of stalk, pounce, kill, and eat.

8. Gentle Brushing Sessions

Gentle Brushing Sessions
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Regular brushing removes loose fur that causes uncomfortable hairballs. Short sessions of 5-10 minutes are often more appreciated than longer grooming marathons.

Cats who seem resistant to brushing might actually enjoy softer brushes or different techniques. Brushing mimics social grooming behaviors, strengthening your bond while maintaining their coat health.

9. Window Access With Views

Window Access With Views
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Natural light and outdoor scenes provide crucial mental stimulation for indoor cats. A simple window perch transforms a boring day into hours of bird-watching entertainment.

Cats spend significant time observing the outside world when given the chance. This “cat TV” helps prevent boredom and depression in indoor felines who might otherwise have limited environmental enrichment.

10. Room Temperature Consideration

Room Temperature Consideration
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Cats naturally run warmer than humans, with a body temperature around 102°F. Many homes are kept cooler than what’s truly comfortable for felines.

Access to warm spots like sunny windowsills or heated beds can make a tremendous difference in your cat’s comfort, especially for senior cats or those with arthritis. Their appreciation shows in their relaxed posture and purring.

11. Vertical Territory Access

Vertical Territory Access
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Shelves, cat highways, and climbing opportunities transform your home into a three-dimensional playground. Vertical space reduces tension in multi-cat households by creating more territory.

Wall-mounted steps or shelves allow cats to navigate rooms without touching the floor. This satisfies their natural climbing instincts while providing exercise and mental stimulation that floor-dwelling pets miss out on.

12. Respectful Handling Boundaries

Respectful Handling Boundaries
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Unlike dogs, most cats prefer being petted on their terms. Respecting when they’ve had enough physical contact prevents stress and builds trust.

Learning to recognize subtle signals like tail twitching or skin rippling shows your cat you understand their communication. Many cats enjoy brief, gentle petting sessions rather than extended handling.

13. Fresh Litter Box Maintenance

Fresh Litter Box Maintenance
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Cats are naturally clean animals who appreciate immaculate bathroom facilities. Many owners underestimate how frequently boxes need scooping – ideally daily, not weekly.

The rule of thumb for box count is one per cat plus one extra. Strategic placement in quiet, accessible locations makes cats feel secure during vulnerable moments. Fresh litter and clean boxes prevent many behavioral issues.

14. Positive Reinforcement Training

Positive Reinforcement Training
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Contrary to popular belief, cats respond wonderfully to clicker training and positive reinforcement. Short, fun training sessions build confidence and provide mental stimulation.

Teaching simple behaviors like high-fives or coming when called enriches their daily routine. Cats appreciate the predictability of knowing which behaviors earn rewards, creating a stronger bond between you and your feline friend.

Michael Tremblay
byMichael Tremblay

A nature enthusiast from Montreal with a background in wildlife photography. Michael writes about wildlife, conservation efforts, and the beauty of animals in their natural habitats.