Do Axolotls Love Their Owners?

Have you ever looked at an axolotl and wondered, “What’s going on inside their head?” The answer might surprise you.

Oct 28, 2024byColt Dodd

do axolotls love their owners

 

Axolotls always look like they’re smiling. Whether they’re hiding under a log or scarfing down worms, it always seems like these endangered neotenic creatures are in a good mood. But what goes on inside an axolotl’s head? Can they feel emotions like love? 

 

Many axolotl owners can attest that they share a powerful bond with their pets, and they see that bond reflected in their pet’s behavior. Swimming to the aquarium’s edge, bursts of playful energy, and overall good health are signs that your axolotl “loves” you.

 

Axolotls Can Bond with Their Owners

pink axolotl in fish tank
A pink axolotl in an aquarium – Image by Bernard DUPONT on Wikimedia Commons

 

Because of their blank stares and permanent smiles, axolotls get a bad rap for being “empty-headed”. Believe it or not, these animals are more intelligent than most owners give them credit. Despite their poor eyesight, axolotls can learn to recognize shapes and associate them with positive experiences. So, while an axolotl can’t make out fine facial features, it can learn to associate your shadowy figure with food. And axolotls love to eat! 

 

Ocean Road Magazine reports that axolotls can count to at least three, which is impressive compared to similar animals. Further scientific studies may reveal that axolotls are smarter than originally thought – and are possibly capable of forming deep emotional bonds.

 

How Can I Strengthen My Axolotl’s Bond?

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A melanistic axolotl – Image by Уткина Дарья on Wikimedia Commons

 

The way to an axolotl’s heart is through their stomach. When an axolotl is three to five inches long, you should feed them twice a day. Once they’re seven inches long, you can feed them once a day, and when they get beyond seven inches, you can feed them once every two to three days.

 

These animals need a protein-rich diet that resembles the meals they would eat in the wild. Earthworms should be the cornerstone of their diet, with the worms cut into small pieces to avoid choking. While axolotls love bloodworms, these should only be used as treats, as they contain a lot of fat and don’t offer the protein your pet needs.  

 

Note: while feeding your axolotl is a great way to build familiarity and bond, these little guys are prone to obesity. Consider your axolotl’s size and age when creating a balanced meal plan. 

 

Signs of a Content Axolotl

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A pink axolotl resting on a sandy bottom – Image by Mutantrainbow on Wikimedia Commons

 

Unlike a dog or a cat, an axolotl can’t curl up in your lap after a long day. It won’t purr or lick your face to show affection, either. Like many pet reptiles (although axolotls are amphibians), these tank-dwellers are mainly intended for display, not handling. In fact, you should never handle an axolotl, as this can dry out their slime coat. They’re also more fragile than they appear, and although they can regenerate limbs, you don’t want to risk hurting your pet. 

 

So, how do you know if you’re giving your axolotl a good life? Some signs include: 

 

  • Fluffy gills. A healthy axolotl will have luscious gills on both sides of its face. Healthy gills are a good sign that the water parameters are balanced, and your pet is receiving a well-rounded diet. A stressed axolotl would have shrinking gills that curve forward. 

 

  • Being inactive most of the day. Axolotls are nocturnal and are most active at night. During the day, a healthy axolotl will doze under the shade of a log or leafy cover. At night, they’ll swim around their tank and explore different nooks and crannies. 

 

  • Stability. A well-maintained axolotl will not have adverse changes in color, gill “fluffiness”, or eating habits.

 

Axolotls Are Solitary Animals

black axolotl floating
A black axolotl floating – Image by Anneli Salo on Wikimedia Commons

 

Some small pets, such as guinea pigs and ferrets, must be kept in pairs or groups to thrive. This is not the case with axolotls. They don’t need extensive interaction or enrichment. In fact, many axolotl enthusiasts advise against keeping them in tanks with other critters. For starters, axolotls are opportunistic eaters, meaning they’ll eat the other fish in the tank. What’s more, the fish could also suck on the axolotl’s slime coat, affecting their health. 

 

You don’t have to do much as an owner to earn a spot in an axolotl’s good graces. By feeding them regularly, ensuring their tank stays clean, and responding appropriately to health concerns, you’ll definitely become their favorite person – even if they don’t really know what you look like!

 

What if I’m Concerned About My Axolotl’s Activity?

an axolotol from the side
A pink axolotl from the side – Image by Fernando Losada Rodriguez on Wikimedia Commons

 

If you’re concerned about your axolotl’s well-being, there’s a large community of aquarists online eager to share their knowledge about caring for these critically endangered animals. Be prepared to share pictures of your pet, along with details about your tank’s water parameters, to get constructive information. 

 

If your axolotl stops eating, has open sores, or experiences shrinking gills, this should be considered a veterinary emergency. Take your pet to an exotic veterinarian for a diagnosis and treatment options. You might have to travel far to find a vet that specializes in aquatic animals, but it could make the difference in saving your axolotl’s life.  

 

It’s easy to care for axolotls if you understand and meet their needs!

 

Other Amphibians That Form Bonds with Owners

leopard gecko
A close-up of a leopard gecko – Image by Christian von Faber-Castell on Wikimedia Commons

 

It’s natural to want a pet that reciprocates your affection. That’s why so many people own cats and dogs; they essentially evolved alongside humans! Of course, you don’t have to write off your dream of having a unique pet if you’re looking for an animal to share your love. There are many options for both first-time owners and advanced handlers alike. 

 

Some amphibians and reptiles known for their friendliness include: 

 

  • Bearded dragons. Known for being one of the friendliest pet reptiles, these creatures enjoy riding on their owners’ shoulder, playing simple games, and lounging under heat sources. Their hardiness makes them ideal for households with younger children. 

 

  • Pacman frogs. Looking for a pet that’s just a mouth with eyes? Look no further than the Pacman frog, also known as the South American horned frog. These nocturnal critters enjoy burying themselves in dirt and croaking at night. 

 

  • Leopard geckos. Leopard geckos are gentle, friendly reptiles that don’t mind occasionally being handled. As insectivores, these lizards require a steady diet of crickets, flies, and mealworms.

 

Colt Dodd
byColt Dodd

Colt Dodd is a sighthound enthusiast with three years of freelance writing experience. He has an Italian greyhound/Shetland sheepdog mix named Homer. In his spare time, he enjoys going to dog parks and writing fiction.