Cats have a bad reputation for being aloof and even unfriendly – but this isn’t always the case! While some cats are certainly less social than others, they all have unique personalities, and some cats and kittens can be super friendly.
Sometimes, all it takes for a less sociable cat to warm to their owner is some dedicated bonding time to build trust and a solid connection. Cats may be independent, but having a good relationship with their owner is important for their mental and emotional health. Keep reading to learn how to bond with your cat.
1. Interactive Playtime with Toys
Play is important for kittens and cats of all ages, breeds, and temperaments. It’s also an excellent opportunity to bond with your four-legged companion!
Using interesting toys like wands, laser pointers, and feathered toys that mimic prey they might chase is a great way to engage their natural hunting instincts and have a bit of fun. This will keep them active, allow them to release any pent-up energy, and allow them to spend some quality time with their owner. Switching up their toys regularly and offering them something new to chase will also keep them stimulated and prevent boredom in cats.
2. Puzzle Feeders and Treat Dispensing Toys
Cats have natural foraging instincts, and a slow feeder, puzzle feeder, or treat dispensing toy can be an excellent way to satisfy their need to scavenge!
Make your cat work for their meal by popping their pet food into one of these feeders and help them understand how to use the puzzle properly if they’re struggling. This is great mental stimulation for your cat and will also slow down speedy eaters who have a tendency to make themselves sick by going too fast. Spending time with your cat while they’re eating can also help build a sense of trust and a positive association.
3. Training with Positive Reinforcement
Yes, you can train your cat! Believe it or not, cats can also learn some simple but fun tricks, just like your dog. You can teach your cat to sit, stay, or give a high-five, among many other commands.
Training is a great bonding time opportunity, and this can also help strengthen communication and build trust between pet and owner. Offer your cat treats as a reward, and focus on positive reinforcement training instead of punishment when they don’t obey commands. Not only is this good fun for both you and your cat, but it’ll encourage good behavior and learning.
4. Grooming Sessions
Cats are clean creatures, and will appreciate your assistance when it comes to keeping their coats shiny and luscious. While bathtime for your cat is never a good experience, a good brushing will help reduce shedding and hairballs, making their self-grooming practices easier for them.
Plus, grooming your cat’s fur offers a great opportunity for bonding through touch and creating a calming experience for them. They’ll build trust in you, and the pleasant sensation will bring positive associations. You can also use this time to check your cat for health issues like skin problems, pests, and lumps.
5. Outdoor Time on a Leash
Everyone knows that taking their dog for a walk is important, but very few offer the same experience for their cats. A few reasons for this include the fact that you need to consider different types of exercise for cats, and also that they’re often more skittish and prefer the comfort of their own homes.
However, you can safely introduce your cat to the outdoor world and see if it’s something they enjoy. More social cats will love this experience. Put them on a leash just like a dog, and let them explore! You can take your cat for stimulating walks where they can experience new sights and smells. If they’re not a fan of the leash, you could also try out a cat backpack and go for a walk, adding to the health benefits of owning a cat, too!
6. Catnip Play Sessions
Your feline friend will love a catnip treat. This herb is often used to make cats feel more relaxed or playful, and it’s a great way to have a bit of fun with your pet.
You can offer them catnip-filled toys or sprinkle some on their scratching post for a bit of enhanced playtime. If your cat gets extra playful, indulge them by playing with toys, throwing something for them to chase, or simply letting them hunt your fingers under a blanket! If your cat gets a little lazy from the catnip, let them lounge on your lap and give them a cuddle. Make sure to monitor their reaction and ensure they don’t become overstimulated.
7. Quiet Cuddles and Lap Time
By nature, cats are lazy loungers. And a lot of the time, so are we! Relaxing with your ca and snuggling on the couch are top-notch bonding activities for rainy days, cozy evenings, or just about any other time.
Stroking, petting, and cuddling your cat are great ways to bond through tough, and you can reinforce feelings of safety and trust when you let them relax and fall asleep with you. Make sure not to force this, though. Let your cat come to you when they’re in the mood for a cuddle – you’ll know it’s time when they jump up on your lap, get comfortable, and start purring.
8. Cat TV or Window Watching
One final fun bonding activity you can try out is setting up a “Cat TV” for your feline friend. There are YouTube videos for cats, featuring things like swimming fish or mice darting around. This makes for excellent visual stimulation and might get your cat into a playful mood.
You can sit and bond with them while they’re engrossed in the screen or even set up a comfortable perch for them by the window so they can watch birds and other outdoor happenings from the comfort of their own home.
